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jgrahamc 1 hours ago [-]
"Being exposed to average bodies, to average humans, makes you readjust your perspective about what is normal, and what is acceptable, and what is beautiful," says Rachitskiy.
I'm sure that's the crux of it. My own experience of nude beaches is that it feels normal and is very relaxing. You see other people nude and they are all normal bodies with all sorts of variety.
SoftTalker 52 minutes ago [-]
I don't see how this really works. Sure you see that most people have average bodies but when you see someone who looks like a Roman statue or has an otherwise "perfect" body then would you not still compare yourself to that?
eigenspace 19 minutes ago [-]
It's not really about learning to rank yourself against other people's bodies more or less accurately. The point is to stop obsessing so much over how your body compares to other peoples' bodies in the first place.
My experience after visiting nude saunas and beaches in Germany is that you're in an environment where no matter what someone's body looks like, the social responsibility is to be casually respectful, and not make a big deal out of someone's body regardless of whether it's normal, or exceptional in a positive or negative sense.
This helps one put into context that it doesn't actually matter so much what your body looks like. You can be beautiful or hideous, and still have a right to relax and feel comfortable and go about your day.
I think that clothing has a way of amplifying our curiosity and reinforcing taboos. When you strip away the clothing you learn to relax about this whole business of fixating on how your body might compare.
jgrahamc 49 minutes ago [-]
Sure, but given that you see what the average looks like you understand that that perfect body is an exception.
kmijyiyxfbklao 41 minutes ago [-]
What if you discover that you are exceptionally ugly?
fhn 31 minutes ago [-]
congratulations on being exceptional
D-Machine 49 minutes ago [-]
Because it doesn't work, or works only trivially. Yes, seeing other bodies can make you feel better about yours, but it can make you feel worse too.
Depends on the distribution of bodies, which ones you focus on, and your attitudes to beauty in general. Seeing a bunch of normal things doesn't magically make those normal things all suddenly beautiful or okay, beauty and aesthetic desirability are almost always about the exceptional, practically by definition.
You can put me in a room full of mostly obese people, and tell me this is normal and representative of average (which it may well, in America), and you aren't going to change my mind about that obesity being ugly or undesirable. There are actual facts here, beauty and attractiveness aren't purely socially constructed.
> Depends on the distribution of bodies, which ones you focus on, and your attitudes to beauty in general. Seeing a bunch of normal things doesn't magically make those normal things all suddenly beautiful or okay, beauty and aesthetic desirability are almost always about the exceptional, practically by definition.
Is the problem that it would actually address more the skewed distribution of scantily-clad bodies that people are actually exposed to (e.g. heavily weighted towards thinner and more attractive people in media (social and traditional) and porn)?
anon48293 48 minutes ago [-]
Yes, but also to all the other non-perfect bodies. Puts things in perspective.
Towaway69 47 minutes ago [-]
If you are living in northern Europe, you can also just go to a sauna.
The core conclusion "makes you feel better about yourself" is really a no-brainer if you regularly go to a sauna. Plus, as bonus, it's healthy for your cardiovascular system, your immune system and probably for your skin too.
jsrcout 54 minutes ago [-]
In theory, sure. For me personally... not so much.
kmijyiyxfbklao 41 minutes ago [-]
I'm pretty sure if we had sex in public we would feel less weird about sex too. But I wouldn't advocate about that.
fhn 25 minutes ago [-]
I would. I'd argue it's only in recent times humans have hidden the body with clothing and made just about everything taboo and you've been brain-washed to think that is OK. It's only illegal because some people found it offensive and now all people find it offensive.
noidea_ 13 minutes ago [-]
We've been wearing clothing for about 170,000 years....
> you've been brain-washed to think that is OK
Some of us have learned new things in the past 170,000 years
> now all people find it offensive
This entire post is about how many people do not find it offensive
lovelybunch 51 minutes ago [-]
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notenlish 1 hours ago [-]
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neuve 1 hours ago [-]
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feverzsj 55 minutes ago [-]
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ranger_danger 54 minutes ago [-]
There can be other valid perspectives than your own.
mabini 2 minutes ago [-]
Not when it comes to pedophiles and sexual harassment dickweed.
I don't care about the perspective of a pervert sorry. Get some help.
worldsavior 56 minutes ago [-]
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zulux 36 minutes ago [-]
Just don't do this around other people's children without consent; that's all I ask. Some families aren't as permissive, and that's OK.
vinni2 30 minutes ago [-]
No one is doing this in public places where children are. These are presumably designated nude beaches and nudist colonies. So as long as you don’t bring your children there intentionally they should be safe.
noidea_ 16 minutes ago [-]
> No one is doing this in public places where children are
There are literally subreddits dedicated to finding communal showers that kids use. They have FAQs on how to deal with erections when families are around.
Some people care so much about other people being nude that I can only assume they're diddlers.
I'm sure that's the crux of it. My own experience of nude beaches is that it feels normal and is very relaxing. You see other people nude and they are all normal bodies with all sorts of variety.
My experience after visiting nude saunas and beaches in Germany is that you're in an environment where no matter what someone's body looks like, the social responsibility is to be casually respectful, and not make a big deal out of someone's body regardless of whether it's normal, or exceptional in a positive or negative sense.
This helps one put into context that it doesn't actually matter so much what your body looks like. You can be beautiful or hideous, and still have a right to relax and feel comfortable and go about your day.
I think that clothing has a way of amplifying our curiosity and reinforcing taboos. When you strip away the clothing you learn to relax about this whole business of fixating on how your body might compare.
Depends on the distribution of bodies, which ones you focus on, and your attitudes to beauty in general. Seeing a bunch of normal things doesn't magically make those normal things all suddenly beautiful or okay, beauty and aesthetic desirability are almost always about the exceptional, practically by definition.
You can put me in a room full of mostly obese people, and tell me this is normal and representative of average (which it may well, in America), and you aren't going to change my mind about that obesity being ugly or undesirable. There are actual facts here, beauty and attractiveness aren't purely socially constructed.
EDIT: The only actual supporting non-correlational "study" is funded by British Naturism, and has 52 participants, with all the usual hallmarks of bad social psych as well https://research.gold.ac.uk/id/eprint/28407/1/2020.03.09%20M...
Is the problem that it would actually address more the skewed distribution of scantily-clad bodies that people are actually exposed to (e.g. heavily weighted towards thinner and more attractive people in media (social and traditional) and porn)?
The core conclusion "makes you feel better about yourself" is really a no-brainer if you regularly go to a sauna. Plus, as bonus, it's healthy for your cardiovascular system, your immune system and probably for your skin too.
> you've been brain-washed to think that is OK
Some of us have learned new things in the past 170,000 years
> now all people find it offensive
This entire post is about how many people do not find it offensive
I don't care about the perspective of a pervert sorry. Get some help.
There are literally subreddits dedicated to finding communal showers that kids use. They have FAQs on how to deal with erections when families are around.
Some people care so much about other people being nude that I can only assume they're diddlers.